I see a lot of relationships sprouting up in the spring time particularly on fetish sites like FetLife. But I find it remarkable how quickly some of those relationships come to an unfortunate end. By the tail end of the summer, there’s bitterness in break-up.
I don’t scoff at anyone for feeling heartache so bad that it turns to depression. What that can show is that what you felt for someone was a very sincere and deep emotion within you.
But I can’t help but wonder why these relationships were so short-lived and what it must feel like to welcome someone into your heart and your life, only to see them depart so quickly.
I know what it feels like to meet someone, spend time getting to know them, grow together with them and because of them, fall in love with them, face challenges together, overcome some obstacles and learn from those we didn’t overcome, and then in the end, the relationship ends. It’s more painful than anything you can imagine.
It’s called life, I guess. And for a relationship with length, you suddenly find yourself redefining where you’re headed next.
I’ve never had a relationship that only lasted a few months and I wonder if the bond that forms at beginning produces the same kind of pain at separation.
The Daddy/BabyGirl dynamic digs into you deeply and etches itself into your soul. But when it’s new, I wonder what it feels like to lose it before it’s had a chance to grow..
My heart goes out to those people who met, fell in love and fell apart inside of a single season.
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