What is it about a BabyGirl which makes her precious in a Daddy’s eyes? What is it about her that awards her our everlasting love and a place in her Daddy’s heart which she winds up owning anyway?
It probably can’t be put into simple words or a list or a string of posts, but – by golly – I’m gonna try.
This may take a while.
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A BabyGirl is possessed of one kind of mind. There’s so much about her which melts you, mends you, needs you, controls you and only ever asks for you to love her.
From her head to her toes and from the outside to the inside, every blessed inch of her, every movement, every expression and every thought which comes through in her personality makes clear so much of what becomes her essence and effect.
So let’s begin with the top of her head.
Or more descriptively … her hair.
So what is it which makes a BabyGirl decide to shed the pigtails for the day? Hair has always been a signal sender for a girl. So what signal does a BabyGirl send when she doesn’t go with pigtails?
Curly Hair – Curly can often indicate insecurity or uncertainty, as if
she can’t quite find the comfort she craves. But it can also be a cry for attention or an indication of how little she feels. And by making her hair more noticeable, she will often achieve receiving that attention.
Certainly to not forget to mention that some girls have naturally curly hair, the belief that curly hair equals “need” may only be stereotypical, but the question is: How many times does that stereotype apply?
Straight Hair – Straight can indicate “put together”, “in search of nothing” or “content with happiness”. It’s also the easiest hairstyle for a Daddy to run his hands through, obviously. On these days, order rules the way. Not imposing order or being strict. Just simply going about your day with the knowledge that order is all ready there. It is on these days that she will be one step ahead of you every bit of
the way. She knows what she wants and she knows what she needs and she knows what she’s going to get.
Straight hair is an indication that she accepts her role with no hesitation or delay. And it isn’t because she is making concessions or because she is withholding her feelings or emotions. It’s simply because she can look herself in the mirror and say “I am his BabyGirl and that makes me very happy.”
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Be it understood and never forgotten: There is no such thing as a bad hairstyle or a hairstyle which indicates inadequacy of a girl, but if we take the time to match up their moods and behavior with the decision they made that morning while standing in front of the mirror, we just might be able discover what they need before they even know it themselves.















































































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