What a Daddy Gets From It: “Magic Hands”

Every now and then, I make reference to the question: “What Does A Daddy Get From the Dynamic?” I’ve seen this question pop up on a quite a few sites and I’ve received this question in emails and private messages. And I’ve done my best to answer it. But it doesn’t seem to matter how many times it’s stated, the answers given are often hard for a BabyGirl to understand. Perhaps the only way to know what a Daddy gets from it is to be a Daddy – just the same as the only way to understand what a BabyGirl gets from it is to be a BabyGirl.

It’s frustrated me a bit that, though I find it easy to write, I just simply can’t find an all-encompassing answer to this question. So what I’ve decided to do is create a series of on-going blog entries, until I have fully answered the question.

This is the second entry and each entry will detail a small little “something” that I’ve gotten from my time as a Daddy. But these are only my answers, my opinions and what I get from the dynamic. It may differ for others and that’s the beauty of it. Much like Age Play and ABDL itself, it is as individual as we are.

So the second entry I will entitle as: “Magic Hands”.

Now before too many minds go dirty, let me explain that the “magic hands” I’m referencing are magic because of their healing power … although other meanings do certainly apply.

As I continue to put a few more years under my belt, what I’ve come to realize is that the people in my life who have remained are the ones who recognize “evolution” as opposed to “change” (no pun intended). And one thing I’ve learned is that any relationship I’ve encountered, whether mere friendship or romantic, has had trouble when the starting point was heavy-laden with a list of things that needed to change.

This hasn’t happened to me very often in life, but when I’m viewed as a project that needs improvements, I tend to grow weary. Any healthy connection begins with similarities. We find ourselves drawn to other people who make us feel good about who we are. Yes, differences are certainly important, but should never begin anything. And if the thought is: “I really like this person, but there are a few things about him/her that will need to change”, then a future moment could easily include the wave goodbye.

Yes, relationships that are healthy should not only change us but should encourage us to continuing changing ourselves. But the changes that are healthiest are the ones you make together … over time and naturally. When growing with someone, the pathway that yields really good results is the one where you evolve into being a couple, not the one where you are forced to suddenly and abruptly become someone other than who you are.

Grow together, for each other and because of each other, not because you were instructed to or made to feel like you needed to.

When I was born, I had a colic condition which, in a nutshell, is fluctuating abdominal pain. What this meant was: I had upset stomach attacks all the time. And throughout life, this condition never really left. What it’s done is forced me to maintain a more bland diet. Rarely do I try new foods without knowing completely what the ingredients are and I avoid spice altogether. About the only food with “bite” I can handle would be mild wings at a Pizza Hut. And even then, I have several drinks nearby to quench the burn – should it suddenly appear. But having lived most of my life in the land of the Amish where the common cuisine is often bland in flavor, this worked out nicely.

So how does this apply to what a Daddy gets from the dynamic?

Enter “Magic Hands”.

The hands of a BabyGirl possess the power of healing because they are filled with the power of love.

From headaches, to upset stomachs, to moments of frustration, there has been no medication or other remedy more effective than being touched by the fingertips of a little diaper girl who is consumed with affection and with need.

The magic of her touch heals.

Can she prevent headaches and upset stomachs? No, of course not. But she has the ability to address the symptoms and if nothing else, she is able to make them go away – every time they show up. There’s selflessness to doing that. And for a soul often gripped with neediness of her own, she is able to display another example of give-n-receive – the healthiest bit of “evolution” and “change” imaginable.

Oh, there are many more “What a Daddy Gets” rewards out there and there will be more to come. But the “magic hands” of a BabyGirl give you something that you not only need when feeling discomfort, but you also need when just want to hold her.