25 “Humiliations”

The Pictures Stories

25 “Humiliations”

The Pictures Stories

25 Humiliations

The Picture Stories

“… created with both AB and DL individuals in mind”
“Wear Proud”
“… thick enough for high absorbency but thin enough to be discreet out in public”

With such statements on their website, it’s clear that BareBum Diapers is onto something pretty special.

What a brilliant name for a diaper.  What a brilliant site and what a brilliant idea in general.

When you get on barebumdiapers.com, you will quickly find out that the creators of this line aren’t just producing a really neat adult diaper.  They are pulling from their own pasts and making nostalgia seem new.

In a parallel from the musical world, what made the band Queen so globally popular was how their music drew people, cultures and nations together.  Their songs all spoke of the exact same issues, concerns, desires, wants and needs that every human being has.  So, instead of dividing, they multiplied.

BareBumDiapers feels that way about things, too.  When I read the words “Wear Proud” on their site, I realized that – much like many other ABDL companies – we really aren’t competition for one another, but rather, yet another contributor with opportunity to help the ABDL community grow.

Spacey of The Big Little Podcast, often says: “A rising tide lifts all ships.”  BareBum Diapers is shining example of that.

I cannot encourage you enough to check out their site, read the testimonials and reviews, join their newsletter and become a part of something that is quickly growing big … while keeping everything little.

Proud Sponsor of The Crinkle Cast

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I hardly know where to begin. 

2016 has begun with a galloping pace and as I put some long hours in at a theater to help them get their first show up and running, I find myself with limited to no time to write and to keep updating this website.

But as the new show nears it’s opening night, my schedule will return to normal.

For now, however, I wanted to drop this quick blog posting and give anyone who may so care to read a bit of knowledge for what is happening, what is about to happen and what is shortly down the road.

Firstly, there’s CAPCon coming up.  March 18th – 20th.  In years past, CAPCon has sold out by Valentine’s Day.  So, if you’re on the fence about attending it this year, it’s soon time to decide or to then look forward to CAPCon 2017.  There’s only so many tickets left at this point.  And I can’t encourage you enough to go to this convention.

Secondly, there’s some really big news to let you in on and a whole lot of things for you to listen to coming up before too many more sunsets and sunrises bookend our days.  I wish I could just tell you what it is, but I have been sworn to secrecy.  As I am a man of my word, I will only say … that sometimes, there are three peas in a pod.

Thirdly, there will be another sample of the forthcoming 60 Degrees and Down the Crack – an ABDL ebook with a storyline that was born at TeddyCon 2015. 

For now, here’s the first sample: “Trickle Down“.

Blessings to you all for a fantastic 2016,

Zorro Daddy

Dynamic Moments are points in time when you make discoveries or when you come to conclusions or when you feel the beginnings of something greater than yourself.

During the month of December, I will be writing about 10 such moments.

Here is the tenth:

Gratification Saturation –

When people first get something they’ve always wanted, perhaps something they’ve wanted for quite some time, they will often inundate themselves with it, indulging in whatever it is to excess and beyond. This is similar to the spending sprees people often go on after winning big time in the lottery.

When dynamic moments are felt, gratification follows – inherently, if not even more so than that. And the saturation part is natural as well. Why wouldn’t we want to have as much of a good thing as we can handle? The real trick is finding the one thing in life we have to have as opposed to need … balance, balance of all things good and all things great and all things immeasurable of quality.

Without balance, it’s hard to know what too much is. Without saturation, it’s hard to know what too little is.

But the need to have gratification is part of the process and also a right. Journeys that end well often end that way. And to see someone indulging in rewards is never a bad thing. For a Daddy, seeing his little swoon in anything to the point of being saturated is reward in itself.

Gratification, thankfully, has limitations. But those limitations are, ironically, limitless. Doing the same thing all the time eliminates the specialness it could hold. A thought to ponder would be: You can’t miss something, if it never goes away. At the same time, what if you don’t want something to go away?

From these ponderings comes the return to that concept of balance – of where something you crave becomes something you wanna keep craving. And for once, limitations give you the ability to balance that out. But what awaits at that point is greater than you could’ve imagined otherwise.

When you find the saturation, then find balance and that’s when it will really good. There will still be plenty of moments of gratification saturation. But there will also be a leveling that will make everything sustainable, so that you can enjoy gratification like that now, a year from now, ten years from now and for the rest of your life – without ever allowing it to become too much to live with.

And when you feel that balance, that will be a dynamic moment for you.

Dynamic Moments are points in time when you make discoveries or when you come to conclusions or when you feel the beginnings of something greater than yourself.

During the month of December, I will be writing about 10 such moments.

Here is the ninth:

What’s in a Name? –

“What’s in a name?”

That seems like a fairly simple question and though it was merely just a line in a Disney song, Timon brought up a very interesting point … perhaps a dynamic one, at that.

I actually didn’t respond to the name Zorro Daddy at first when I began attending ABDL events like CAPCon, TeddyCon, Private Parties and the like. Up until then, I was never called that name to my face and it took a bit of time to adjust to it. But now, when someone at one of those conventions calls me by my real first name, I often don’t respond to it because I’m expecting to be called Zorro Daddy.

So what’s in a name? Our given names are one of the first words we recognize and begin to respond to. But when we receive other names, given to us by friends and significant others throughout life – those names become endearments. This is not because the names are particularly special, but more so because of what they mean and why we were called them.

In private, they make us snap to attention without hesitation. After all, when you need to convey something to someone, you call to them. But what you call them can also be just as forthright in attention-getting as it is familiar.

In public, when you whisper a pet name in someone’s ear or even go so far as to call across a store to them with something like: “Come on, baby. Let’s go” – you elicit a response that may not be outwardly visible on the surface. With a simple name that you save only for them, you can find the center of their heart.

But what really happens when we hear particular names we are called?
• Chemicals like oxytocin are released in the brain and stress is reduced by a simple four letter word of love.
• A sense of security is given, to know that someone is there for you, whether when happy or when sad – to dry your tears and make your heart race.
• Focus is found and utilized on a great many fronts, from tasks before you to the ease in ability to enhance a meaning relationship.
• I’ve also read that when you call someone “baby” that they see you as their baby. If that’s true, then it’s a pet name that works perfectly for switch couples.

Baby is a universal pet name, but it has a different and far more significant meaning for us. It’s only one of countless names that we use. But when in the right mood or state of mind to be receptive to such mushy exchanges, some BabyGirls can’t help but be swept away – all while still standing on their feet.

And when you feel that or any positive affect from names such as baby, that will be a dynamic moment for you.

Dynamic Moments are points in time when you make discoveries or when you come to conclusions or when you feel the beginnings of something greater than yourself.

During the month of December, I will be writing about 10 such moments.

Here is the eighth:

The Growth Reason –

I firmly believe things in life that last, that remain and that can become permanent are able to do so because they happened naturally. From inception to toleration to deepening to need and through all levels of growth, when a connection or friendship with someone begins without facade or on false terms the ever after can be far more likely than the end.

And there are many reasons for this with many theories along the way. But growth in general is fundamental for all of us … growth of the mind, of self, of love, of so many other things. And I believe we instinctively make our choices of pursuit, based on the likelihood of our growth. This could be with regards to careers, education, religion and other foundational elements of life. But our own need to grow can encourage us to live in certain areas, to eat certain foods, to remain close with one’s family – but also to keep certain people or things or experiences out of one’s life.

Evolution is an ever-happening catalyst behind all decision we make about growth. We put ourselves in the best situations we can to develop beyond our own imaginations. And while evolution is theory-based in itself, there are theories as to why we make the choices we do.

And one theory in particular that I have always been fascinated by is the theory that offers up a possible explanation as to why the average female is shorter than the average male.

Pheromones are chemicals with an insect or mammal that are emitted from the body and released into the environment to affect other members of the same species. Pheromones sometimes warn of danger, but can also give directions to others and they can also signal arousal.

In humans, pheromones are emitted from the skin and from all over the body – from the top of the head to the underside of the feet. But on a female’s body there is an area where her pheromone emission is at its highest and strongest. That area would be on the top of her head and on her forehead. This is her pheromone “hot spot”.

For a male, his “hot spot” is across his chest and at the front of each of his underarms.

The average female is 5’4” and the average male is 5’10”. (Or 1.62 meters for females and 1.78 meters for males) The exact inch/meter count varies from one place in the world to another and for other reasons, but the result is almost always the same: The average female is shorter than the average male.

The theory? When a female faces a male, her nose is at the height of his chest – right where his pheromone “hot spot” is located. And at the same time, a male’s nose is lined up with the top of her head – right where her “hot spot” is located.

The theory states that evolution has made up grow up or grow down – to line up our sniffers with the other’s “hot spot”.

I have no idea if any of that has been proven or if it’s true at all, but it makes good logical sense. And think about it …

How many times have you buried your nose and whole face in your Daddy’s chest? Ever wonder why you enjoyed doing that?

How many times have you sniffed your BabyGirl’s hair? Ever wonder why you like the scent, even if she hasn’t used a scented shampoo that day or the night before?

We grow towards the things we want and towards the things we need and towards the things that make us feel better about who we are.

The ABDL dynamic? Oh my, it insists – if not requires us to keep growing. That’s what gives it further depth and makes it something that is as fundamental to us as breathing is. Every bit of it can be natural and thusly, can grow for a lifetime.

And when you feel that reason to grow with someone and because of them, that will be a dynamic moment for you.

“First Contact”

“Face-to-Face”

“Physical Touch”

“Whispered Conversations”

“Bonding Secrets”

“Overwhelming Sensations”

“Privacy Lost”

“The Growth Reason”

“What’s in a Name?”

“Gratification Saturation”

Rose Bedford, the city girl from Boston who moved to North Carolina and met a Cowboy who had a habit of taking his shirt off, returns in Country Rose 4.

Autumn has arrived and it seemed like summer passed in the blinking of an eye. For Rose, it was literally one blinking of her eyes. She closed them in June and opened them in the beginning of September to learn she had been in a coma.

Now, completely incapable of moving at all, Rose faces the most difficult challenge of her life so far. No, the most difficult challenge isn’t the extensive rehab she will go through to recover from severe muscle atrophy. Instead, the real challenge will be to find a way to overcome the fear of having lost a memory that might forever be incomplete.

The world of Country Rose relocates to a North Carolina hospital where, with the help of a counselor, a trainer, a nurse and a dog, Emmitt her beloved Daddy and husband-to-be must find a way to help Country Rose not only get back to good, but more so, to help her realize that she will be better than ever before.

This book contains some mild medical fetish elements to go along with the usual ABDL and age play ones.

Samples:

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…………………………….. The Country Rose Series

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Country Rose

Country Rose 2

Country Rose 3

Country Rose 4

Country Rose 5

Country Rose 6

Country Rose 7

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If you like The Country Rose Series,  I’d also recommend checking out two other ABDL Romance series:

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The Zeke & Lily Saga

The Mia Series

Dynamic Moments are points in time when you make discoveries or when you come to conclusions or when you feel the beginnings of something greater than yourself.

During the month of December, I will be writing about 10 such moments.

Here is the seventh:

Privacy Lost –

The longer you know someone, the more you will know about them. It seems to be reasoning based on good logical sense. And with the exception of those people who are clairvoyant and psychic, no one can tell the kind of person you are from a momentary glance or from a short time together. But it is, in fact, time that reveals all things – from truth to the most finite of details.

I’ve always believed a dynamic relationship to be one where you never stop learning new things about each other. And it’s no slight meant against vanilla relationships to say that the dynamic opens up little pieces of people that otherwise wouldn’t have been shared without the chocolate.

It’s a gaining of fulfillment. And privacy lost is a very big part of it.

How many people in your life know everything there is to know about you?
We all likely would answer: “No one”. Not even a partner, spouse or soul mate.

But what if your answer could be: “Yes. There is one person who knows everything there is to know about me. And when I learn new things about myself, so do they”?

What would that require of you to let someone into every place in your heart, in your mind and in your soul? Every emotion you feel would be displayed. And even moments when you shielded yourself in personal privacy would be gone.

It may sound a bit extreme, but it really wouldn’t be – because the one person you have shared your entire self with would be someone you trust with everything that you are and everything that you could ever become.

And suddenly, you would have someone …

• … relating to you in different ways at different moments for different reasons as you deal with different emotions.

Imagine some being able to know what to say to help you when you desperately need it or to praise you when you desperately need to hear. As opposed to someone making you feel like you’ve been blown off. Also imagine not having to convey any of this to them – because they already knew it.

• … helping you find balance when you feel very imbalanced inside.

Imagine someone knowing how to reset the scales so you can find poise again – whether your needs of the moment supersede everything else or if you have to wait for your needs to be addressed.

With privacy lost, you are stripped down to your core … figuratively and before you know it … literally.

There are no secrets you wish to keep any longer, not from that one person. There is nothing you are capable of hiding anymore, not from that one person. Yes, privacy is lost. But there is everything to gain.

And that is what’s so dynamic about it.

Sometimes, the readjustments you not only crave but require comes at the hands of a little extra incentive, so to speak. And it is within those moments that you feel completely different. It’s not because you have become any different, but rather, because you stayed the same. It’s just that every little piece of you is now being affected as you are now an open-book to that one person.

And that one person becomes more important to you than anyone else.

There is a glorious helplessness when lying before him, naked of your reservations and naked otherwise – being powdered and being diapered and being cared for in a manner that privacy would deny you the right of having.

Oh, yes. You’ll fidget. And oh, yes. You’ll fuss. But the one deciding factor that makes privacy lost desired and sought is that you actually wanted to lose it in the first place. It was simply a matter of the conditions having to be as close to perfect as possible.

And when you feel that connection with that one person, when you indulge in the blessings of privacy lost, that will be a dynamic moment for you.