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Dynamic Moments are points in time when you make discoveries or when you come to conclusions or when you feel the beginnings of something greater than yourself.

During the month of December, I will be writing about 10 such moments.

Here is the sixth:

Overwhelming Sensations –

When I first discovered ABDL, it was online. I’ve mentioned this story before in postings. It was quite a while ago. The year was 1492 and along with Christopher Columbus discovering America, ABDL was an enormous discovery for me.

I sat in my father’s study at 3am on a Saturday morning. I was a junior in college and when a simple search yielded the result of an ABDL message board, I remember my heart started pounding so fast that I got dizzy while sitting down. I could see each individual thump on the front of my t-shirt.

Like so many others before me, up until that first moment of discovery, I thought I was only dingbat in this world who liked the ABDL thing. I didn’t even know the acronym ABDL existed.

But I can say, with absolute clarity of memory, that the thoughts and questions swirled around in my head.  The physical reaction of shock and the sensations within me were quite overwhelming. And maybe the reason for that was because it had always been something that had been important to me. I just never believed that anyone would ever be accepting of it – and certainly not a partner of the future.

Fast forward ten years … DiaperSpace is up and running and is immensely popular. FetLife has just been launched and there are ABDLers surfacing all over the place. Suddenly, there is every reason to believe … in possibilities, in practicalities and in those overwhelming sensations.

Just meeting people was intense. Then the relationships. Then festivals and munches and conventions … oh my! A whole new world had opened up and I didn’t even need to find a genie in a lamp or ride a magic carpet.

And it has always been the sensation that remained with me … as friendships tightened and as some became distant, as some things ended and others began. There was always that sensation, overwhelming to say the least.

What does it feel like, you may ask? I suppose it’s different for everybody. And for a Daddy, it may be different from how a little would feel it. I guess the best way to describe it would be to focus on the adjective … overwhelming.

Inundating would be another word to describe it, when everything you feel and think and experience becomes so much more powerful and so much more important to you.

It isn’t just silliness. It’s super-silliness.
It isn’t just happiness. It’s super-happiness.
It isn’t just friendship. It’s best friendship.
It isn’t just love. It’s deep affection.

And because of those friendly meetings, those whispered conversations, those bonding secrets … those overwhelming sensations make for a need that is fulfilled. When someone or something is the provider or reason for a sense of personal completion, we tend to harbor them and their effect on us very closely in our hearts.

There are no absolutes. And that’s the beauty of it. I have yet to meet two ABDLers who see it and feel it and love it the same way. But the crux of this always seems to be similar or the very same. You now have people in your life that not only know the whole of what makes you who you are, but they are also the same themselves.

By sharing this, you give all of yourself to the overwhelming sensations and you put your heart into the friendships and relationships that now enrich your life.

Maybe the greatest reward I have ever felt was knowing that I gave “all I had” and in doing so, I was able to meet someone’s needs.

She was an angel … and she still is to me.

It is enriching experiences like that which enhance the overwhelming sensations.

And when you feel those overwhelming sensations, that will be a dynamic moment for you.

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Dynamic Moments are points in time when you make discoveries or when you come to conclusions or when you feel the beginnings of something greater than yourself.

During the month of December, I will be writing about 10 such moments.

Here is the fifth:

Bonding Secrets –

How many times has someone said to you:
“Hey, I gotta tell you something but you can’t tell anyone else.”?

Or worse: “Hey, I just heard the craziest thing. You won’t believe it.”
Your response: “What is it?”
Theirs: “I can’t tell you. I promised I wouldn’t say anything to anyone.”

After getting over the impulse to shake them for having said anything to you at all, you eventually learn that what they wanted to say to you really wasn’t all that big of a deal. What actually was the big deal was the promise they made to another to not spread the rumor.

But it was the fact that they showed you that they really wanted to tell you that means the most, in a situation like that. And, because they kept their promise to another by not revealing the juicy story or rumor, you instantaneously hold them in a higher regard of trust.

I’ve often spoken of a girl I met in my third grade class who would change my life forever. But I wouldn’t reveal that story until I was almost 30 years old. (How’s that for keeping a secret?)

But there was another experience I had seven years prior to that which I believe I will never share with anyone.

Secrets are things that we all have. We just choose which ones to share with others. But there are always reasons why we choose particular people to share our secrets with. It’s often because we trust them and hold them in high regard to keep our secret … just that, a secret.

But there has to be a reason before we share the best-kept secrets in our hearts. It’s a bond. There is always some direct link between you and that person.

For a little, so rich with emotion and fueled with sudden openness, I’ve always believed that the secrets within will eventually come out of them. And what scares a little about it sometimes is that they don’t know if the revelation of that secret will be on their terms and when-n-if they decide to share it – or – if it will just come blurting out of them at some random moment.

And what this can lead to is shyness in confessions. A BabyGirl has found and connected and drawn close to a Daddy, to use one specific pairing of roles for example. She is shy about opening her heart for worry that she will be hurt, but still … as her bond with him grows, so does her desire to share all her secrets with him.

And a Daddy’s responsibility, at that moment, is monumentally important – because now she wants to tell Daddy all your secrets. She will give up blackmail-worthy information. And she won’t even realize it sometimes.

Little minds are affected by little things. And for a BabyGirl, there is no such thing as “too much”.
She dreams big about being little. And she confesses the same way. And just like that friend who tells you something that you can’t tell anyone else, a BabyGirl trusts you with everything she has and everything she is.

When you hear such confessions from a BabyGirl, you will melt with her and for her … and that will be a dynamic moment for you.

Dynamic Moments are points in time when you make discoveries or when you come to conclusions or when you feel the beginnings of something greater than yourself.

During the month of December, I will be writing about 10 such moments.

Here is the fourth:

Whispered Conversations –

Commonly, there are two types of conversationalists. There are people who talk and then listen. And there are people who talk and then wait to speak again. And the distinction between them is clear. Within a single conversation with them, you can determine which type of conversationalist you are talking with.

For those who wait to speak as opposed to really listening to you, the topics you discuss with them are often shallow but not unimportant, quick so as to not force you to become a permanent listener when they speak and seldom as human instinct makes you look for another person to talk with.

For those who can talk and then listen to you … and then have a reply statement that tells you they actually heard what you said, the topics become plentiful, in-depth and invigorating. Your discussions with them become more and more compelling as you become more and more comfortable with them.

And it is this latter type of conversationalist you will go back to … to talk with again and again.

In the sense of age play and ABDL and across the community of such, conversations that find the give-n-take also find that depth quickly. Depth welcomes the bond between the two of you. When you have something really important to say to them, that’s when your words become whispered.

And often, we will whisper to someone when we want say something to them and them alone … for their ears only, so to say. And when someone whispers to you, you listen very carefully so you can hear them but also because you suddenly feel special. When whispered, words are even more meaningful.

You’ll find yourself engaging in whispered conversations when lying in bed together, he as your pillow and you as his blanket. And it is when within those endearing moments that you realize a profound yet simple truth:

When two people give, then there is no take. You simple give and you receive.

I’ve shared a lot of whispered words, but only with select people – with those who I knew would really listen. And my philosophy is very simple about the exchange of dynamic relationships, too.   It all comes down to one basic thought to keep in mind:

Take and take as much as you want, but always give back more than you take.

When you do that, you will understand what someone else is doing for you … and that will be a dynamic moment for you.

Each January, I take everything I wrote in the year that just ended and I put it all together into a paperback.  Then, I make four copies of this paperback.  I keep one copy for myself.  I give one copy to a friend in New Jersey named Glen (as he was the ABDL-er intrepid enough to put together an ABDL convention in 2011 called NELICon.)  I keep the third copy for the CAPCon raffle and the fourth copy for the TeddyCon raffle.

Over the years, people have asked me where they could get a copy of these books and I told them that I didn’t sell them.  But after repeated requests, I have finally decided to do so.

These books are 8.5 x 11 inches and range from 400 pages up to more than 700 pages in length.  There are no ebook versions of these anthologies yet.

But, by request … here they are:

The 2011 Anthology

Word Count: 239,144

Page Count: 382

Price: $30.00

15 Stories: 10 Things To Do With Your BabyGirl On a Saturday Night, 10 More Things To Do With Your BabyGirl On a Saturday Night, The Déjà Vu Trilogy (Inamorata, Ingénue and Illuminati), Late Friday Evening/Early Saturday Morning, Gratification Two: Discipline and Humiliation, Johnny and the Princess, The Mia Series: Books 1-3, The Adventures of the Pajama BabyGirl, ABDL BedTime Stories (“Naughty & Nice” and “Salty & Sweet”) The Aria Series, That’s When I Knew

The 2012 Anthology

Word Count: 397, 957

Page Count: 529

Price: $40.00

24 Stories: ABDL BedTime Stories (Sugar & Spice, Fire & Ice, Passion & Purity, Tame & Wild), 10 Things Left To Do With Your BabyGirl On a Saturday Night, 10 Things To Do With Your BabyGirl On a Sunday Night, 10 Things To Do With Your BabyGirl On A Monday Morning, Gratification Three: Surrender & Submission, Gratification Four: Helpless & Vulnerable, Gratification Five: Spankings & Correction, Gratification Six: Mind Games & Melt Downs, Sticky Situations 1-3, The Mommy Grats: Boy Toy, The Mommy Grats: Girl Power, The Story of Lucy (Enigma, Echelon and Euphoria), Gabriel and Gina: Two Days, Three Nights, Gabriel and Gina: Crossroads, The Mia Series: Book Four, The Mia Series: Books 5 and 6, The Adventures of the BeachTown BabyGirl, Rock-a-Bye BabyGirls: The Home Sweet Home Stories and The Stories of Time

The 2013 Anthology

Word Count: 648,469

Page Count: 724

Price: $50.00

25 Stories: The Adventures of the SnowBunny BabyGirl, Gratification 7: Pleasures & Guilt, The Mommy Grats: Boy Toy 2 and 3, Rock-a-Bye BabyGirls: More Stories of Time and Yittlin Extreme, The Mommy Grats: Girl Power 2 and 3, Sticky Situations 4 and 5, The ABDL MedFet Books 1-3, Zeke & Lily (Book Nine): By Summer’s End, Gratification 8: Power Trips & Sexual Extreme, The Mia Series: Books Seven and Eight, The Adventures of the Traveling BabyGirl, From Sun Up to Sun Down: The ABDL 3-Way Experience, The Dynamic Story, Gratification 9: Unfinished Fantasies & Unspoken Realities, Zeke & Lily (Book Ten): For a LifeTime, The ABDL Horror Book, The ABDL Pet Play Book, Feeling Little In a Big World 2

The 2014 Anthology

Word Count: 622,480

Page Count: 740

Price: $50.00

17 Stories: The ABDL Apartment Books 1 and 2, The Mommy Grats: BoyToy 4, The Mommy Grats: Girl Power 4, BabyLove, Gratification Ten: Five Days of Want & Need, Country Rose 1 and 2, The ABDL MedFet Books 4 and 5, ABDL BedTime Stories: The Tangled Fairy Tales, The Mia Series: Book Nine, The ABDL Nympho Books 1 and 2, Climax, One Hot Night (The Story of a Girl Named “Love”), Crimson

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The 2015 Anthology is still in the works as the year hasn’t ended and there are more stories to write before New Year’s.

Merry Christmas, everyone.

Zorro Daddy

Dynamic Moments are points in time when you make discoveries or when you come to conclusions or when you feel the beginnings of something greater than yourself.

During the month of December, I will be writing about 10 such moments.

Here is the third:

Physical Touch –

This one probably goes without saying, though that doesn’t mean it shouldn’t be written about.

There are many specific instances … events, even … within a connection between people that, when they take full effect, can change and heighten whatever they want. Perhaps everything in the process.

Physical touch is not the least of which on this list. But it is the one that can make any emotion instantaneously fulfilling. Words can speak deeply, but take time to sink in. Sight can grab attention quickly, but will occupy you with details to examine first. It is the physical touch that not only pinpoints focus for you, but keeps you fixated on the present, the current and the anticipation of what’s to come.

Physical touch boosts the immune system, decreases sadness and wards off depression. It gives you something else to think about and makes un-idle your mind. It draws you in and lowers your defenses as you shrink up in response to a single thought of more, of so much more.

It requires everything from you and fully commits you to the moment and to the power of that moment. From someone else’s touch – you learn of their passion, of their strength, of their self-control and of their aggression. But at the same time, you also learn of their tenderness, of their nurturing instincts, of their ability to give pain and to take pain away.

Physical touch can become a primary language, ideal for those times when words seem to get in the way. It reminds you of where you’ve been, of what led to the present moment and of where you are being led to. A strong word can reduce you quickly. But a particular touch can make you happily submit to everything you would have otherwise resisted. Thoughts never feel as good as the touch. Thoughts may paint wonderful pictures in your mind, but it is the physical that is being depicted in those pictures. And it is the touch that is being dreamed about.

Touch takes simpler moments of casual discussion and makes them extraordinary – meeting for a cup of coffee never having been so meaningful before. Touch shows recognition of the time you’ve taken to prepare – of the most finite details you slaved over to get right. It is the reward for your efforts to make things run smoothly … like his hand, sliding up the back of your leg.

A Daddy’s touch has completely different meanings. And each touch is unique, with a purpose that is as timely as it is encompassing of the essence of everything you share with him. And in his hands, from his touch – you will find a place you truly belong.

And when that happens, it will be a dynamic moment for you.

Taken from the free ABDL ebook:

The Christmas Wish

here is a little story about dreams coming true … just not how they were expected.

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Twas the Wish Before Xmas – 

Christmas Eve, 7:45pm

It was certainly the most wonderful time of the year. And a casual stroll through Pennbrook Mall vividly displayed the season’s mesmerizing effect on all who were there – everybody scrounging to find those extremely last-minute purchases … the people on their lists who were the toughest to shop for and the most difficult for whom to find the right gifts. From the decorations to the lights to the music to the fact that everyone seemed to have the spirit within them, it wasn’t hard to understand why people put off the shopping to the last possible second. There were so many other things about the holidays that were more fun to do. But on this night, the spirit of the season would become more real than could have ever been imagined.

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Dynamic Moments are points in time when you make discoveries or when you come to conclusions or when you feel the beginnings of something greater than yourself.

During the month of December, I will be writing about 10 such moments.

Here is the second:

Emailing with people is amazing. It gives you a piece of who they are and continues to do so until you Skype with them. The same is true of texting with someone until you speak with them on the phone. And when you meet people face-to-face, the connection begins.

Whether it’s a connection of ABDL friendship or more, you always have the gift of knowing that you’ll never have to reveal anything to them down the road. It’s the one thing you knew you initially had in common with them. And because of having side-stepped this landmine right away, it becomes easier to get to know someone. And oh my, the things you suddenly have in common with a perfect stranger.

Now … this isn’t an absolute description and I’m not saying that you can’t get to know someone well if you don’t tell them about the ABDL thing. Honestly, we all do that in our everyday lives. Friends, family, co-workers, acquaintances – they don’t know it by looking at us. But a fairly common truth among us is that ABDL is often a well-kept and closely-guarded secret we harbor with a great degree of sensitivity. So, having that sensitive subject in common with someone else makes the first hellos so much easier to say.

The comfort of being protected by distance and a lap top makes it easier to communicate about ABDL and once we’ve become accustomed to that comfort, sometimes there’s another step to take that seems natural.

I never seriously pick on people who have vanilla relationships. To each their own, but at the same time, I always make note of both the similarities as well as the differences between the vanilla connection as versus the crinkly kind. As there are many things in life that draw people together, ABDL is something that not only shares all of you but encourages you to continue to dig deeper into each other.

And if, perhaps, ABDL is the most-sensitive part of someone’s heart, then what happens when the meaning of that acronym is shared with someone else can easily be described as dynamic.

When you begin to rely on someone, you learn to need them. And you realize that you are one half of something that is perfect for you. But there is no real perfection. So don’t pretend there is. Just be perfectly imperfect for each other. And your connection will continue to grow.

There is no amount of good advice or colloquial expressions that will curb your appetite. Everything is new and the possibilities are endless – without form or figure … until face-to-face creates the physical attributes.

When you ache for someone, you want them to have the same craving as you. Impulsiveness will pull the emotion out of you and drive you forward. And suddenly, you’ll want your other half to breathe in the same fantasy as you.

But don’t ever look for the fantasy. Read about the fantasy. Dream about the fantasy. But don’t look for it.

Instead, look for the reality that could include the fantasy.  And you’ll find balance along the way.

ABDL should be something that enhances your life, not something that makes it more difficult for you to live or more difficult for someone else to live.

Face-to-face is the beginning of many things that can last a lifetime. And it is a dynamic moment to live by.

Dynamic Moments are points in time when you make discoveries or when you come to conclusions or when you feel the beginnings of something greater than yourself.

During the month of December, I will be writing about 10 such moments.

Here is the first:

First Contact –

Throughout my life, there have been pivotal moments when things have happened that would alter the course of my journeys. And it’s really fascinating to look back on these specific instances to see how they changed the steps I’ve taken along the way.

These events aren’t all ABDL-related. But this is an ABDL blog. So I’ll focus on the more crinkly memories for this string of postings.

In 1998, I made a discovery online that would open my eyes and get my heart pounding heavier and faster in my chest than ever before. That discovery was of ABDL. I didn’t know it existed and the very thought that there were others in this world who were age play inclined was not only mind-boggling to me but it quickly gave me obsession to reach out to at least one of them.

At the time, there were very basic ABDL sites on the internet. DiaperSpace hadn’t come to be. There was no FetLife yet. DailyDiapers and DPF were the only concrete websites I found with substance and depth. That’s not to say that there were no other ABDL sites. But those were the only two that popped up as results on a Yahoo search.

I perused everything, finding pictures and postings and … stories. It was those stories that first encouraged me to begin writing my own the following year. The first story I ever wrote was called The Diapered Female, a fairly boring title – I know. But years later, I would change the name of the story and add a bit more to it and you can now find it here.

In 1999, I wrote to a middle-aged guy in California who spoke of how he and his wife were Daddy and BabyGirl. I won’t divulge who they are, but I will never forget receiving his email reply. It was my First Contact.

He spoke of how he and his wife met, how they had been to a gathering a few years earlier in California and how ABDL first entered their lives. I remember being on cloud nine as I replied back to him, reciprocating my origin information. I was elated because I had never told anyone any of it. And finally having that ability and that opportunity was worth more than I could ever put to words.

I would email with that guy and a bit with his wife for several weeks. And then they did the nicest thing for me. They sent me a package that had a few stories in it he had written, an ABDL newsletter they were subscribed to and two VHS video tapes. On these video tapes were a collection of episodes from television shows. Each of these episodes had ABDL-content or ABDL-ish content.

I remember the one episode was of a TV war drama back then called China Beach. The lead character ate something she wasn’t supposed to and got deathly sick. As the sickness passed through her, she couldn’t even get out of bed and she was kept in cloth diapers until her strength returned.

Another episode was of a short-lived TV sitcom called Nurses. In this episode, one of the male nurses hired a prostitute to spend the weekend with him. She explained that she was a little more than just naughty with the services she provided. And, as that male nurse found out, she had a desire to diaper and baby men.

The rest of the content on the video tapes was a collection of episodes of talk shows. This included the infamous Jerry Springer episode, but also others – one from Phil Donahue, one from Montel Williams, one from some UK talk show I can’t presently remember the name of.

And what dumbfounded me about all of this was that there were newsletters, TV content, gatherings and so much more that had been happening for decades. Yet – I never saw a single bit of it, never accidentally stumbled across something on TV or bumped into an article in a magazine or anything like that.

Needless to say more, my First Contact was a truly dynamic moment for me. And it fueled my passion to meet more people and to acquire knowledge along the way.

It may seem too simple to be interesting anymore, being as the internet is vastly superior in quality and quantity of content these days. But even so, remember back to that very first moment you started lurking on ABDL sites, to that first moment when you decided to put up a profile and to that very first moment you either contacted someone or when someone first contacted you.

It was, in essence, exactly what you were looking. It was the actual reason why you curiously lurked about to begin with. Maybe you weren’t able to put it into a one-sentence explanation.

But as you found out, sometimes we find what we’re looking for when we least expect it.

And first contact will surely lead to more contacts. The opportunities are more plentiful than ever. There are munches going on everywhere. There are gatherings like CAPCon, TeddyCon, KickAss Sleepovers, DipStocks, Abdulias, US Little Retreats, Connecticut Littles Invasions and those are just the ones that come to my mind right now. There are more.

It’s a very fundamental thing … looking for others who are like you or who share similar interests. And when you make that decision for yourself … to make First Contact and then more, it will be a dynamic moment for you, too.

“No, lemme tell you dis firs’, Daddy,” the BabyGirl said, taking the pacifier out of her mouth, right after her Daddy put it in her mouth.  “Dis is importan’ an’ you’re gonna be glad I telled you dis.”

“Okay,” her Daddy said, patting her diapered bottom and making her climb back up into her crib.

“Okay,” the BabyGirl said, lying down as her Daddy covered her with her baby blanket, but still determined to speak her piece before she went to bed.  “You’re not gonna believe dis, but I figured out why all your Twizzlers have been disappearin’!”

“Really?” her Daddy asked, slipping his hand under the blanket and checking her diaper one more time as she tended to babble a lot when she was wet.

“Yeah!” the BabyGirl exclaimed.  “Ya know how when we get up in da morning, how sometimes da door to da cupboard wit’ all da candy in it is wide open, right?  Well, I finally figured it out.”

“You did?  So you figured that out and that’s why I just found you down in the kitchen, holding the bag of Twizzlers and staring into the cupboard?” her Daddy asked, making her turn over on her tummy as he tucked the blanket in around her.

“Exactly!” she exclaimed.  “An’ dat’s why I got out of my crib an’ went down der.  Cuz I heard somethin’ in da kitchen an’ I just knew dat your Twizzler’s were bein’ stolen.  An’ your not gonna believe who’s been taking dem.”

“Who?” her Daddy asked, trying to hide his smile as he tucked all her stuffies in around her.

“Da Tooth Fairy!” she exclaimed.  “As it turns out, she’s a Sweet Tooth Fairy.  I couldn’t believe it at firs’ either.  I was like No Way, but Yes Way, Daddy!  And dat’s why you saw me holdin’ da bag a’ Twizzlers when you founded me in da kitchen.  I didn’t want da Sweet Tooth Fairy to taken ’em!”

“So let me get this straight,” her Daddy said, preparing to summarize.  “I put you in your crib 3 hours ago and when I came up to bed just a few minutes ago, you heard a noise in the kitchen, getting into the cupboard with the candy in it.  So you got up, lowered the side of your crib – by yourself, climbed out and quietly crept down to the kitchen, to then grab the bag of Twizzlers before they were stolen by the Sweet Tooth Fairy?”

“Yep,” the BabyGirl said, smiling brightly with a piece of Twizzler candy stuck to her front two teeth.

“Mystery solved then,” her Daddy said, kissing her forehead and raising the side of her crib as she plunked the pacifier into her mouth.  “Princess?”

“Yes, Dadduh?” she asked back, behind her pacifier.

“Daddy thanks you very much for being such a clever little detective and cracking the case,” he said, smiling at her, his heart gushing for her as she handed him the candy.  “But could I have the bag of Twizzlers back now?”

“Oh, yeah.  Sure,” she said, handing him the bag of candy, then lying back down.  “Good night, Daddy.”

“Goodnight, Nancy Drew,” her Daddy said, turning out the light and walking out of her nursery.

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25 “Little Thoughts”

I’ve lost track of the number of people who have contacted me and told me they loved the character of Mr. Woody.  And I always smile when I get those messages because Mr. Woody is the kind of character in a story who makes things interesting.  He’s not a main character, but he has importance.

Perhaps I ought to go back to the beginning and explain who Mr. Woody is. Continue Reading …

It is 6pm on Thursday, October 8th, 2015.  And as you are reading this, TeddyCon 2015 has begun.

The pizza party is presently under way, but there will be so much more to come – from the after hours parties to the classes to the presentations to the movie night to the story time to more after hours parties to the Saturday “Follow Zorro Daddy to Chinese food” Lunch Time  Road trip to the pageant and talent show to the sing-a-long to more after hours parties to the raffle table to the changing rooms to the vendors area to the littles area to the ball pit to the crib and beyond.

TeddyCon 2015 offers twice as much as its impressive inaugural debut last year.

Gotta go for now.  Everyone’s eating pizza, but wait until you see what TeddyCon has in store for 2016!

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25 Humiliations

I wanted to pass along some quick information about two ABDL gatherings that are now open for registration.  In the months to come, I will certainly blog about them a lot.  But for now here are a few links that will guide you in the direction of both events:

CAPCon 2016 – The midwest ABDL convention in a mind-blowing hotel.  Running six years strong.

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BouncyTown 2016 – The BouncyTown returns to the same private campground in northern Maryland where it began.  Lil Ella and WunderTom head up the outdoor event again.

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For even more ABDL gatherings and events, please check out: 

ABDL All Year Long

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TeddyCon 2015, here we come!

I often reference Mako Allen – blogger, podcaster, author, ABDLer, friend, confidante and more – in my postings.  He has always struck me as an individual who can see concepts without necessarily needing to be specific about anything.

Mind you, he certainly can and does get specific about things – along with Spacey in The Big Little Podcasts.  But in conversations with him on the phone, when I’ve met him at munches and conventions and weekend festivals, when we email each other and when we text, I have always been amazed by his ability to be all-encompassing.  And as their podcast motto states:  It’s a show by, about and for age players of all kinds.

That mentality has probably been the one thing about ABDL and age play that has intrigued me the most.  I remember once Mako spoke of the Catholic Schoolgirl idea and how, for whatever reason, it seemed to be something that could be added to practically any other fetish/interest/dynamic/whatever you would like to call it.

Do you see what I just wrote there?  I typed ABDL and age play.  Then I gave three different words as options of what to call the less-than-vanilla lifestyles.

And hence, the idea … flavors of ice cream.

There’s a local dairy store in the southern end of Lancaster County that I used to go into all the time when I was younger.  It was a half mile from the high school and after soccer practices, I always went there and got a double scoop of their homemade ice cream.  There were a bazillion flavors to choose from but I always chose the bubble gum ice cream.  It had chunks of bubble gum in it that served as an added bonus when the ice cream was gone.

But the point of this posting isn’t to talk about Mako or bubble gum.  Those were just good starters.

The real point is to say that, even if you don’t like bubble gum-flavored ice cream, it’s still ice cream … isn’t it?  Even if you don’t like conventions that welcome all different types of ABDLers, they’re still ABDLers … aren’t they?  Even if you don’t like the dark and butt-whoopin’ age play mentality or even if you don’t like the pure-n-innocent mentality, they’re still both ABDL mentalities … aren’t they?

Whether ABDL stands for Adult Baby Diaper Lover or if it stands for Ass Beating Diaper Lover, they’re both still ABDL.

Whether you call it an ABDL community or cluster or friend circuit or Borg collective, it’s still the assemblence of ABDLers and age players … isn’t it?  When we momentarily view the differences, we begin to see the commonalities, don’t we? 

And it’s really neat to see that everyone enjoys their own flavor, while still being able to call it ABDL … or age play!  LOL

But the other thought that comes to my mind is how, much like the Catholic Schoolgirl, ABDL (or age play) can go well with practically any other interest.

Furries have babyfurs.

BDSM certainly mixes well with the age play – as a great number of ABDLers have not only embraced a second 4-letter interest but have even converted into it a good bit.

It’s sort of like the O-Negative blood type being able to mix well with all the others.  And from an ABDL author’s standpoint, it makes for quite a few different themes and story lines, from dark to sexual to romantic to MedFet to pure-n-innocent and more.

The flavors of ice cream are plentiful, but it’s all still ice cream.  And even with gatherings, from CAPCon to TeddyCon to Camp Crucible to Abdulia to so many others, there’s variety galore.

So it seems the all-encompassing approach is the one that often appeals to everyone.  And the reason is very simple:  It’s the approach that includes everyone … each with their own flavor of ice cream.

And how sweet it is.

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This particular flavor of ice cream is called squid ink.  It’s apparently quite popular in Japan.

TeddyCon 2015 nears closer each day.  And as it gets closer, even more information about the fabled weekend extravaganza to come surfaces.

In addition to the classes, the ABUniverse-sponsored pizza party, playtime, the amazing littles’ area and so much more, there are also crafts and activities galore.

CRAFTS
Kazoo and Tambourine Making – Find your inner musician and create some instruments to use during the sing along on Saturday night!

Marble painting – Marbles aren’t just for rolling on the floor anymore! Dip them in paint, roll them around and see what you get!

Perler Beads – Bead by bead, color by color, come let your imagination soar with everyone’s favorite little melting plastic beads!

Pony beads – Friendship bracelets, necklaces, whatever you can think of. Its beading time!

Shaving Cream Painting – Do you like to make a mess? Come make some beautiful art by combining shaving cream, paint, and your imagination.

Paci Clips – Don’t ever worry about losing your beloved paci again! Make a 100% one of a kind clip to keep your paci near.

Model Magic – Roll it, cut it, mold it, and make it your own! Create your sculpture to take home and remind you of your time at TeddyCon

Diaper Decorating – What’s better than wearing a diaper? Wearing a custom designed and decorated diaper! Don’t forget to bring your diaper with you! You might have a hard time not framing it!

Magic Caterpillars – Create some artistic magic while you explore what caterpillars turn into as they grow.

Finger Painting – Who actually needs paint brushes? You don’t! Let your fingers do the painting!

ACTIVITIES
Games Session 1 & 2 – Come and play with your friends and make new ones! Meet us in the playroom for some group games and fun!

Story & Cuddle Time Session 1 & 2 – Meet us in the nursery for some quiet mellow cuddling time and stories

Origami – A great way to begin TeddyCon 2015 and get comfortable with new faces. Learn how to fold some new paper friends.

Movie Night – Put on your favorite sleeper and grab your best stuffie. Join us in the playroom for a movie on the big screen!

Pageant and Talent Show – Do you think you have what it takes to be Little Miss or Little Mister? Do you have a talent that you want to share with us all? Show us your best in the playroom Saturday night.

Sing-a-long – Bring your instruments and your voice to sing your favorite tunes in the playroom after the Pageant and Talent Show.

Bedtime Story with Zorro Daddy – When Zorro Daddy is reading the bedtime story it is certain to be entertaining! Snuggle up for this not to be missed tale in the playroom after the movie.

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Tickets are now extremely limited and going fast. ….. And when they’re gone … they’re gone.