ABDL means many different things to each of us. And it may be the case that you will only ever find one person who sees it the same as you do. Perhaps the two of you rediscover what it means together.
So many things can be factored in the specific flavor of ABDL which leaves the best taste in your mind and your senses. But perhaps the one thing that is a little more universal than not is the core of innocence.
Innocence isn’t so much about pretending. It’s about being. A little not only wants to be innocent but she wants to be seen as innocent and treated in the specific like of the moment.
And a Daddy instinctively protects that innocence. The Chivalry of his soul demands it … as well it should.
When people ask me to explain the ABDL thing, they always preface it by saying: “I understand the age play end of it, but the whole diaper and bottle thing I just don’t get.”
And I offer up to them the idea of a kind of attention I term as “white hot”.
When a flame burns hot enough, its orangish color will disappear, leaving a white flame. This is indicative of a temperature which is much hotter than normal and more intense all around.
It’s a similar comparison to the kind of attention an ABDL girl receives. But it’s this kind of attention she either – 1. received when she was a little girl or 2. wished she could have received as a little girl.
In her eyes, you will be able to see which is the truth.
As a little girl, a female is lavished with toys and clothing and the opportunities to have fun and be silly and be happy. And the people who love her and take care of her ask nothing from her at all, just to see that she’s happy and that she knows they love her.
Or, as a little girl, a female always dreamed of being lavished as such.
Either way, it speaks of innocence.
As an adult female, attention is still a way of life for her, but the attention she now receives comes with expectations and sometimes people do want things from her.
How does this factor into diapers and bottles and innocence? Well … individually, I suppose it doesn’t. But looking at it like that is nothing new. Lots of people view “ABDL” and “The Age Play Dynamic of Love” in pieces, sort of out of context, don’t they?
But just as a little girl doesn’t need the toys and the clothing to feel that innocence, an ABDL girl doesn’t need the diapers and the bottles to feel it either … but it adds to it.
And it’s the innocence of that mindset which is at the core of what makes that re-found “white hot” attention so appealing.
Granted, there are many things that make it appealing, but the idea of innocence is one that most people say goodbye to without a decision in the matter or never actually received.
In discussion recently with a friend about the importance of innocence in life, he said: “When innocence is lost, it’s usually lost for good.”
Imagine the opportunity to get it back or the opportunity to experience it for the first time, never having to say goodbye to it.
This is what puts innocence at the core of a BabyGirl’s heart.
This also leads to the idea of the protection of that innocence …
Enter the Daddy.
From the book:
You’re ready to let the world know how you’re feeling, no matter who’s there or what their particular opinion might be. Great. Don’t let that change, no matter who shows up — or what they’re wearing.
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