Endearment of Opportunities

I’m a storyteller, a writer, a “Daddy” and a nightowl who has enjoyed writing about an endearing subject, putting heartfelt emotions and situations into the stories and the characters.

Feeling a love which runs more deeply than anything you have ever known redefines the way you think, the way you reason and the way you live. It holds a passion which makes it dynamic, in the truest sense of the word. Feeling this with someone produces a connection of souls and a bonding of hearts which can only adequately be described as The Daddy/BabyGirl Dynamic of Love.

The right options will naturally become priority, fueled by the mutual give and receive which makes any relationship healthy. Mere circumstances become the starting points from which all things grow and with the grace of fate, all things become possible when you approach them … for the long haul.

I may have spent my entire life writing about the dynamic, but until I lived it, I didn’t really know what it felt like.

There is nothing more rewarding than knowing you love someone so deeply that you give everything your heart can offer her. And seeing her receive that love and then return it back to you, melts your soul. Because it makes three things very clear:

  • You both understand when two people ‘give’, no one has to take.
  • What you have to offer her meets her needs.
  • You mean as much to her as she means to you.

And in an instant spent gazing into her eyes you will know that you just touched a place so deep within her that she sees you as more than good enough.

The things you keep in your heart are how you make each other feel, how time seems to tick by a little more slowly when in each other’s arms, how her quirks can bring a smile to your face when you think about them later on, how (without even trying) you fall in love with her faults just as much as her qualities, and how the journey you take together rewards you every step of the way.

I’m the kind of person (not just the kind of Daddy) who gives of himself, of his heart, of his time, of his soul and does so willingly.

And I wish I was perfect. I wish I was Superman. Like every soul in this world, I’m not, but there’s no amount of Kryptonite which can prevent trying to be able to do it all.

And maybe without trying, the greatest lesson we could learn is that we are only half of something which is perfect for us. Applying this to the present and the future means the past was a very good teacher.

After all, the journey to get where we are going is just as important as getting there and getting there together.

The destination will be breath-taking and beautiful. But the journey will be what you breathe and will teach you what you need to know to make it a final destination.


Little minds are affected by little things.

She Dreams Big About Being Little. But whether she’s big or little, she’ll always be your BabyGirl.

She’ll say ‘thank you’, not from a sense of obligation, but rather because she knows it’s only two small words that take half a breath to say, but the effect they have on a Daddy’s heart is immeasurable.

She’ll make a wish and blow you a kiss as she leaves. You’ll catch it and put it in the pocket of your button down shirt.


Don’t ever look for the fantasy.

Read about the fantasy. Dream about the fantasy. But don’t look for it. Instead, look for the reality which could include it.

Because you won’t be perfect for her and she won’t be perfect for you, but you’ll both be perfectly flawed for each other.

Make every action matter. Make every word count. Do it all with purpose and hope that those who you love will recognize the convictions of your heart.

There will be mornings that feel like Christmas morning, but that won’t be every day. And you won’t want it to be every day because the truest of tests come from the moments when you struggle and find a way to overcome the obstacles placed before you.

It is that bond between a Daddy and a BabyGirl, everlasting and ever-growing, which I adore writing about. When you feel that dynamic, you’ll understand its power and its passion.

I will always write these stories.
I will always feel that love.
I will always share it with those who wish to pursue the depth of their dreams.
And every word will always be a piece of my heart.


“A lifetime with love will have some thorns, but a lifetime without love will have no roses.”

I don’t just love that thought … I live it.


CinderellaProof that a new pair of shoes can change your life.
But first, sometimes you need to take a step forward.

SamsonProof that the right options naturally become priorities.
But first, sometimes you need to take a step back.

There are always Dreams to be Dreamt, Fairy Tales to be Told, “Happily Ever Afters” to be Pursued, Memories to be Made, that Constant Yearning to Find Completion, the Greatest Passion Yet to be Found, that Deepest Love Yet to be Discovered, that Perfect Story to be Written, and the Opportunity – Awaiting to Feel It All … Again.

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